101 Inadvertently
Madal: Chinmoy, what shall I do when people inadvertently offend me?Chinmoy: Madal, my simple suggestion to you is that when anyone offends you unintentionally, forgive him. And when anyone speaks ill of you intentionally, try to perfect him if you can.
Sri Chinmoy, Two brothers: Madal and Chinmoy, part 3, Agni Press, 1982